I have been Consulting with Capt'n Morgan on this subject tonight and here is what we've found (reflecting back.) It probably wasn't personal, and he is probably just direct. I don't begrudge him (life is too damn short.) It did however make the situation awkward so the trip was a loss as I really couldn't engage in conversation afterward. I will know better to ask next time before I touch someone's aircraft. -It's only prudent.